I accept it’s a controversial decision that will not sit well with all, however it’s a decision I did not take likely. It’s a decision that took months and included feedback from co-workers, friends and clients before I committed to the project.
This is why I chose to spill the beans, to tell it all.
Not to write some seedy ‘tell all’ tale of past sexual encounters. That’s been done to death, and to be honest, I find the practice rather tacky. To betray the client-provider trust for a few extra dollars …nah that’s just not me. I like to think I have more substance.
But I did choose to reveal everything in a different way. Controversially I opted to teach young ladies how to survive as an escort. Ok, to not only survive but to show her every tip and every trick needed to earn impressive amounts of money within the industry …and get out.
I opted to reveal everything I did, from startup, to operating at the highest end of the industry. I decided to write a ‘How To’ that will arm any current escort or someone considering being an escort to survive and flourish. All in explicit step by step detail.
Why? Well in my line of work I am approached by practicing escorts almost weekly and the trend is alarming. More and more reveal that they are disheartened, bitter, broken and financially struggling. They are desperate.
They are taking unnecessary risks. They are making unwise choices. And the industry is doing what it’s famous for; chewing them up and spitting them out.
Now girls don’t go to their career guidance representative and declare, “When I grow up I want to sell my body for sex.” Typically it’s a choice made for a deeper, more personal reason. Often the decision is financially motivated or the result of something traumatic happening in their life. Either way we are dealing with human beings, trying to make their life work.
How could I sit back and stay quiet, when I know how it’s done? With my much talked about 10,091 encounters behind me I don’t need the knowledge any more, so I passed it on.
I sat down and wrote “The Secret Taboo – The Ultimate Insider’s Guide to Being a Financially Successful Escort”.
Wow, has it got people talking! Some are saying that it’s a generous thing to do, others are saying (with a few expletives) that it’s irresponsible to provide someone with the tools to flourish in the sex trade.
My opinion? If a woman is in a circumstance where she is contemplating sex work, treat her as the adult she is, give her the best knowledge possible. Reveal to her how to do the job safely, responsibly and with prosperity. Then get out and enjoy life again.